Circle of Life

I’ve had this idea for a post for a long time now, and now I’m going to write it. It is just a few quotes, advice, whatever to get you out there into the whole road to victory.

Love (along with all feelings) is one way. Within a failing relationship this is extremely noticeable, as one side no longer feels the same way. For a relationship to be successful the feelings have to be two way, both partners need to feel the same.

There is no “the one", but many, the trouble is just finding them. About one person in every 2000 people is a match for you. This trouble is amplified by the delusional depressed state which you reach after a breakup, where you are moping and idolizing your loss and torturing your self respect to shit.

Time is a hero, time will look after you. You may feel like giving up, and want it all to be over, but that is just a thing that will pass. Even if you feel helpless, time will help, it will provide people (new or old) that will help, and eventually you will be picked up off your feet.

You are worth it, there are others much worse. Love is unexplainable, people fall in love with people that beat them, control them, and sometimes even murder them. If someone can fall in love with such horrible or ugly people, you certainly have fantastic chance.

If you don’t try, you have already failed. Thinking “there is no possible way that this could be successful” is fools thinking, by trying there is a possibility that you may become successful, if you don’t, there is none, you have already failed.

You have nothing to lose. If your attempt wasn’t successful, you have not lost anything, well besides time, but it has given you an experience to learn from, to get the hang of it. It is not failing, but just a pot hole on the road to victory.

Girls and guys are exactly the same, with the exception girls have less embarrassing body parts. Girls are just as horny as guys, well at least after they have their first orgasm. All those convos guys have about “If she showed up naked at my door, I would do her in an instant", girls have those too, although usually they aren’t as open about it.

If you snooze, you lose. Often, there is a person you have your eye on, but by the time you build up the courage to go after them, it’s too late, a braver soldier is already in there.

We like to feel wanted. This is why laying in the arms of your lover is the best thing ever, you know you are wanted, and you feel it. So by simply walking over to someone that is all alone, it is giving them that sensation, if ever so slightly.

Everyone likes to be complimented. We all love that warm fuzzy feeling when someone gives us a compliment, so give one. But instead of just saying “you look nice” which every sleazy guy has probably said, be detailed, tell them what caught your eye, make it personal, they will be affectionate.

Being romantic isn’t hard. Just remember things that are special to them, bring it up at an appropriate time, and their heart will flutter.

Attraction is relative. Everyone finds different things attractive, you should never be under the illusion that you are ugly, because someone out there will think that you are the best looking thing ever.

Attraction is amplified by emotion. The girl you like is always better looking (or even perfect) compared to the competition. Once you find that spark with someone, the emotional attraction complements the physical.

I guess that is all for now, if you can think of any other pieces of advice that have helped you along your road to victory, please post them.

Title quote from: Bloc Party - This modern love.

- February 4th, I’ve added two more points about attraction that I thought were common knowledge, but apparently not.

- February 5th, Featured in Henry’s (TheHouseTV) video here.

Refer to the chart here.

Henry:

Dead arm competition right now!

Ben:

Hey hey! I need my arms, I don’t have a girlfriend!

This is a follow on of my controversial life story posted last year, found here.

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Ok… So… I’ll say the advice first, and then have another page for the details.

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